If you've read and memorized all the free e-books of dating psychology and are still afraid to reach out to a group of girls, or feel scared when you see them or get near them, it's because: Get right forward: Your anxiety settles together Multiple fears. Apart from the fear of being rejected, saying stupid stuff, or memories of negative experiences, there is still a fear generated by the group of girls that comes at you if they are interested in you. Can be that you don't hate fear at all because the girls don't think of the bean of you and don't want anything from you at all, because you're not their type or they just have something completely different from swearing with you. So, we assume you're in a shopping center, for example, and at the front is a group of girls who have seen you from afar and are interested in you. Now the girls have different thoughts. One might think of your washboard abs, the next thinks of your face, whether you look good, the third thinks what language you speak for. So the most diverse questions. The questions are a deficiency in the girls ' minds. They want answers, and they want to have the answers from you. That means the life energy flows from you to them and you have scop down the line, the pants painted full because they have so many questions for you. Now grab the three second rule you might know, if not, find out on the internet. That you immediately reach out that you don't feel scared at all and clear the matter up immediately. But if the girls are further away, see you from afar, it will not work out with the three seconds. So you're scared because the girls have so many questions for you. The same thing may have happened to you before at school. For example, if you had a talk, and everyone wanted to know what you had to tell. Or you had to go to the police because you built crap that you've ever considered what you're going to say. You may have had a job interview and the boss has been considering hours before what he asks you everything and you were just scared. This is exactly the same fear. It is created by the fact that someone has questions about you, wants to know about you things that have not yet been clarified and practically thus draw the energy away from you. What you have to do now is leave your feelings completely out. Do not pay attention to your feelings, but just pay attention to your mind. So check briefly in your head, what can happen to you? Is there anything dangerous to life that can happen to you when you address the girls? Is there anything you have to be ashamed of, which is really life relevant or has a big impact on your life? If so, then let it be, don't talk to the girls. But if your mind says, no, there is not really something that could happen, and only your feeling creates this fear, then on the other hand you can just appeal to the girls. Don't forget, courage means doing something despite the fear. I'm not talking about being scared and then jumping off a high-rise to overcome the fear. No. I'm talking about fears for which there is no reason. Fears that want to save you from something that isn't really relevant or important. So when your mind tells you nothing can happen to me, just your feeling creates fear, just do it. Be brave, go after the mind and address the girls.